The Real Reason Change Is Rare
What People Do Not Want To Admit
The Real Reason Change Is Rare
What People Do Not Want To Admit
Written by a human, for humans, always.
There are many people who say they want change...
But if you pay attention...
Not to words...
But to the reality that plays out...
Real Change is rare.
Why do you think that is?
You will hear many different answers given...
Most of them are wrong...
Especially when played out in the long term.
You may hear that the “timing was not right”...
And that may be true in a specific moment...
But fails to be the truth in the long term.
You may hear that “they did not have the right skills to make the change possible”...
And that may be true at a certain point...
But the vast majority of skills can be learned and built over time with proper dedication.
So...
What is it at the end of the day...
That causes most true change to be extremely rare?
The answer...
Is that most people...
Do not actually want to change.
I know that may sound harsh...
People will argue with me on this...
But it is true.
At least...
They do not want to make the changes that are required for change to occur.
They may “want” change...
But they are not willing to make the specific changes in their own lives that are necessary...
For a variety of reasons.
The reality...
Is that most people do not want to change themselves...
They want the world to change to them.
But this is not how change works.
The world does not magically make itself subject to our whims...
This is not a fairy tale.
The white knight rarely comes...
The princess who waits in a tower will likely never be found...
The laws we expect to create peace and stability usually have loopholes that are found and exploited against us...
The ones in power are rarely able to account for everyone, if they care about the needs of the people at all.
If you want change to happen...
You need to be the one to change...
Often in ways that require you to sacrifice things you enjoy.
That is part of the problem...
People are open to some specific changes...
But they are unwilling to make other changes.
That becomes the problem...
The changes they are unwilling to make...
Are the ones that are preventing them from seeing the change they desire.
People say they want peace...
But they are unwilling to listen to the “other side”.
People say they want health...
But they are unwilling to consistently make choices that create health...
And eliminate choices that are causing them sickness.
People say they want their lives to be different...
But they never do anything different in their lives.
People say they have goals and dreams...
But they are unwilling to make even small steps toward them.
People say they want better finances...
But they are unwilling to cut out what is diminishing their earnings.
This...
Is why change is rare.
People want change...
But they are unwilling to be the ones who change...
Not in the ways that are important.
Now...
Sometimes...
People are confused about the ways they need to change...
Because there is a lot of bad information and misinformation that exists in the world.
So they do make changes...
But they are not the changes they actually need.
But...
This simply means they need to change their sources of information...
And get better sources...
Which is a change they refuse to make.
If you want real change to happen in your life...
You need to seek out the reasons that change is not happening...
And you need to become serious about questioning what needs to change.
Change is absolutely possible...
But you need to be the one who changes...
And sometimes...
The changes may be uncomfortable...
But necessary.
The reason most people’s lives never change...
Is that they are unwilling to be the ones who change...
And the result...
Will be that their lives will remain as they are...
Or...
In most cases...
Will continue to get dramatically worse...
Until it is too late for them to change their lives.
If you want your life to change...
You need to become serious...
And deeply question...
What needs to change in your own life...
For the changes you want to occur.
To Your Sageship,
Cody
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